my mother

Over the past couple of months, we’ve asked this question: What has your mother taught you? What did you learn from your mother?

And we received many, many varied and interesting responses. Some of these responses expanded into full blown stories, others are powerful one liners. What all these super interesting stories and responses have in common are timeless lessons. Some of the lessons feel good, others are cautionary, and yet others are straight up bitter. And if you’ve followed this space for a while, you would know that Misskorang is not a place for ostriches. We don’t bury our heads in the sand and pretend the world isn’t happening around us. So we will tell it as we were told, the good, the bad and the ugly.

Over the next few days leading up to mother’s day, we will bring you these experiences as shared by our generous, wonderful readers. So buckle up, dear reader, it is about to be an exhilarating ride; high highs and low lows.

Mother taught me to be strong. To not allow myself to be trodden over. To work hard. To believe in children, she believed in me.

Obaapa, Ghana

What my mother taught me is that it is okay to occupy the space you’re in. I learned that by watching her. My mother is the kind that is never shy to ask for what she needs to be comfortable. She has always been unapologetic about asking for money, expecting comfort and respect, telling people to back off and just doing things that were good for her and served her interests. She always told me, “If you pretend you don’t need anything, people will give you nothing.”

So when I started dating, I let my dates know I was here to occupy my position as girlfriend/wife. And that included expectations and boundaries. It has served me well because I am in a very healthy relationship spanning twelve years.

Coco, USA.

My mother taught me that if you stay with a person who repeatedly abuses you, they will one day murder you.

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At MissKorang we strive to bring you life stories that teach timeless life lessons and, some of those stories, like this one, are real life stories submitted by our readers and shared with their permission. Identifying attributes are edited out to protect our contributors’ privacy.Can you leave your thoughts with these kind people in the comments? If you want to send us your experience, email us at submissions@misskorang.com. Or submit using this anonymous formPlease do not reproduce any part of this content without permission from us. Our stories contain affiliate links. When you click and make a purchase, we may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.

At MissKorang we strive to bring you life stories that teach timeless life lessons and, some of those stories, like this one, are real life stories submitted by our readers and shared with their permission. Identifying attributes are edited out to protect our contributors’ privacy.Can you leave your thoughts with these kind people in the comments? If you want to send us your experience, email us at submissions@misskorang.com. Or submit using this anonymous formPlease do not reproduce any part of this content without permission from us. Our stories contain affiliate links. When you click and make a purchase, we may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you.