covert narcissist husband

I recently came across the term wife-guy on the internet, and it got me thinking about my ex-husband. He was, and probably still is what the internet is calling a wife guy. That is the front he presents, but in reality, he was a covert narcissist husband to me.

I kid you not, you can check on wikipedia, there is a definition there for wife guy;

 “…In social media, a wife guy is a man whose fame is owed to the content he posts about his wife. The term has been applied more broadly to men who use their wife to upgrade their social standing or public persona.”

You wouldn’t expect that kind of guy, a wife guy to be a covert narcissist or any kind of narcissist at all. And yes, my ex managed to keep everybody fooled, me included. He manipulated, used and abused me all the years of our relationship, all the while  posting our smiling faces on social media.

Ours was once a viral photo; me in tight fitting clothes, my husband dressed business casual, wearing his signature jordans, on his knees tying my shoe strings. It was a beautiful photo of a handsome coupe, it garnered tons of awwwws and mmmms around cyberspace. We were newly married by then, and I read the comments with mixed feelings because I had begun to see the cracks in our facade.

I’ll let you in on how that photo happened. We were in a car being chauffeured from our hotel to his brother’s birthday bash, and before we got down from the car, he took my leg, put it on his lap and loosened my shoe strings. When I asked him why, he said, “Go with the flow, you’ll soon understand.”

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