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Self love is not selfish; you cannot truly love another until you know how to love yourself.

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I recall a story in my 4th grade English comprehension book, a folktale, telling how the most beautiful and presumably, the most favored among it’s peers, the crab, lost its head due to too many friendships. Always one to rethink and re-examine, I have come to believe that the story did a good job in teaching little kids a valuable lesson but failed to develop the lesson properly. Did the Crab lose his head due to many friendships or something else?

The Story- How crab lost its head

Long ago in the Animal Kingdom, Crab was one of the most blessed and most beautiful. Odomankoma Nyankopon, creator of all things made Crab special; he had a big beautiful head, he had wits, he was kind, he was rich and he was wise. Crab gave good counsel and was charitable, which earned him many, many friends. Stories of his kindness spread through the Kingdom, many stories were told of his riches and benevolence.

And in order to keep up his image, Crab gave and gave, never saying no. Despite his wisdom, the concept of self love eluded him. He didn’t pay attention to his own needs, he didn’t set much boundaries, all the cared about was how others saw him.And the more he gave, the more his friends asked of him, and took undue advantage of him. He gave up his comfortable home so Sansi the snake could lay her eggs and raise her children. Crab gave his gold and other rare and expensive ornaments to Goldfish so he could go marry a wife. He lent his blanket to Pangolin so he could use it to safely tumble down the mountains.

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Alas, Crab didn’t have much left, even the clothes on his back were gone, borrowed, never returned. And so he sat alone, on the banks of a river, clutching his beautiful head in his claws, enjoying the cool breeze, deep in thought.

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