My family has a shameful family secret. And almost every older person in the family knows but does absolutely nothing! They lament and pretend to be bothered by it but turn around and enable it.

It was interesting to me to read your piece about finding yourself and the grace it took to forgive and heal. It was interesting to me indeed because unlike you, it wasn’t forgiveness that fueled my will to live and succeed, it was and still is revenge!

I was about eleven years old, in class five when my father started having sexual intercourse with me. I used to share a room with my younger brother and sister, and then one day, I was asked to move into the guest room, my parents told me I was too old to sleep with my sibling. I felt grown and special, little did I know. What I found curious is that, my mother cleaned and laid my bed in the guest room that day. And that night, my father paid me a visit I will never forget.

From that day, my life turned upside down and somersaulted over and over in ways you cannot begin to imagine.If I tell you this family secret has destroyed me, I do not exaggerate. I think my soul departed my body, because I became a shell. The abuse went on until I was almost twenty years old, when my father died. And to add insult to injury, I became my mother’s arch nemesis, I guess the pathetic weak fool saw me as a rival as opposed to child she was required to protect.

The sad thing is, I was conditioned to believe it was a normal father-daughter dance I was being made to dance. I thought all fathers did this painful, disgusting, gooey thing with their daughters.I thought it was so necessary and so sacred a thing that, I felt honored to be tasked with the all important responsibility of ensuring it remained a family secret.

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